Remembering Jack Abel

Rev. Jack Abel, Caron’s beloved leader of our Spiritual Care Team passed away on October 9. For more than 15 years at Caron, Jack touched our lives with his kindness, wisdom, love and unwavering dedication to our community, offering guidance and support through so many of life’s moments. He was a champion for our patients and their families and for the role of Spirituality in recovery because he understood that recovery is rooted in healing the spiritual pain caused by addiction. Jack’s presence was a true “beacon of light” for our patients, families, alumni and staff. He was always there with a compassionate word, a loving and open heart, and a spirit of faith that enriched us all. His legacy of faith, love and service will remain a part of who we are and will continue to live on in all of our hearts - inspiring hope, healing and strength for generations to come.

As we continue to mourn and reflect on the profound and lasting impact that Reverend Jack Abel had on us both individually and as a community, we are grateful to share that a Celebration of Life is planned for December 5 at 2 p.m. in Chit Chat auditorium. Doors will open at 1:30 PM, with the service beginning promptly at 2:00 PM. The service will be followed by a reception at McGlinn Dining Hall.

Virtual Participation

Join the Zoom meeting here. The broadcast will begin between 1:30 and 2:00 PM.

In the meantime, friends, alumni, family members and colleagues have shared with us beautiful memories of how Jack impacted their lives which are compiled below. Thank you to everyone who shared, your memories have been comforting to all of us.

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Rev. Jack Abel

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When I got to Caron in March 2013, I struggled with identifying my Higher Power. I went to see Jack and he listened to my musings then immediately reached behind him for a book on his shelf and gave me, "Meeting Jesus Again for the First Time". It was a terrific read and put in perspective some of the doubts I had developed about organized religion. We got to know each other better and I always appreciated his sharpness, wit and empathy. We lost a very good man.
- Bill B.

I was 6 days in, hypervigilent, agitated, afraid, defeated, and I flicked off my sandals and dove into the "grass pass."

I was permitted to leave any group/meeting and ground outside barefoot in the grass -- PRN for panic attacks.

He saw me from inside his office and felt the precedence to run outside and cheer me on, praising me with enthusiasm for engaging in this self soothing and healing ritual. He shared a Psalm that he asked me to read at Chit Chat that Sunday, the 4th of July. It was a hebrew prayer and I happen to be half Israeli. I painted some shorts in the art room with glitter fabric paint for my chapel debut.

He introduced me as a sparkler for the occasion.

I read the prayer with soul, and re-lit my inner light and love.

It was a synchronous, magical mountain moment and potentially my first psychic change.

He provided the support, space and atmosphere to discover spirituality and strength to love and be as we are.

Forever honoring his words of wisdom.
- Rachelle K.

His garden flower analogy:

A gardener had a beautiful bed of flowers except for one that was wilting and sad.

The owner took the plant to the doctor and the doctor recommended a treatment center for flowers. The gardener balked at the $20,000 cost for two-weeks but they eventually sent it off for treatment.

They came to check on the flower after a few days and were disappointed that the flower was still wilting and sad.

They came after 2 weeks and they were delighted. The flower was bright, erect and happy to be alive.

The gardener took the flower home and planted it back in exactly the same spot that it was before. Not long after, the flower wilted again and, despite their best efforts, it died.

You can go to treatment and come out with the best intentions, but if you don't change your environment or your social circle and you don't go to twelve step meetings, your chances of long-term recovery will be limited.
- Tim W.

I'm a minister and perhaps that was why Jack spent time with me when I was at Caron in 2018. We talked about faith, theology, and recovery. He was an attentive listener and a wise respondent, perhaps especially when we saw a few things a bit differently. I always left from talking to Jack feeling joyful and encouraged. When he left Caron for a short time elsewhere, I drove from Virginia to Wernersville for the chance to speak briefly at his farewell gathering. Such a fine man!
- Skip R.

I was a patient at Caron over 15 years ago and Rev. Jack was my spiritual advisor. After speaking to him one on one and then seeing him at chapel I remember thinking…..how does this amazing man always radiate so much light?!

This past year, in July, I attended chapel as an alumnae along with 2 dear friends that completed treatment at the same time as I did. The three of us, along with lots of family members wanted to receive our 15 year anniversary coin at Caron. As I sat in chapel watching Rev. Jack I thought to myself again,…..how does this amazing man radiate so much light?!

It was a blessing and a privilege to begin my journey of sobriety with Rev. Jack and an even bigger blessing and privilege to stand next to him as I received my 15 year coin.

Rev. Jack will be missed by so many and this loss will most certainly be immensely difficult for his family and those who knew and loved him the most. My deepest condolences to his family and all the people that are grieving his passing. I wish you peace. Please know that I sincerely believe with all my heart, that that amazing man is still radiating all his light on all of you.

Thank you for everything Rev. Jack.
- Eleni D.

Reverend Jack gave me the relatability to ultimately understand what was "really" going on in my life and why it was happening to illustrate the canvas in which my life became unmanageable. While I attempted to treat the discontinuation of alcohol abuse directly many times without long term success, it was reverend Jack who helped me understand that I needed to solve a completely different issue in order to eliminate the abuse which was a symptom, ultimately.

My life has become one of service to others and each day is brimming with gratitude and success. I went from rock bottom, credit card debt, loss of a long term career to a top performer in my industry in a matter of 18 months after my stay at Caron where I really took to reverend Jack's lectures. He changed my life, along with everyone else at Caron and for that I am and will always be eternally thankful. Not a week goes by where I don't think about Caron and reverend Jack in some way and I can't imagine that ever changing.

I was very sad to see the news of his passing and I can only imagine that there are thousands upon thousands of people out there just like me who have been the beneficiaries of his heartfelt desire to help them relate to, understand and manage what is unmanageable and painful in their life. It is difficult to speak to the topic without getting emotional.

Here's to Reverend Jack and all of the love and grace he encouraged in the lives of those around him. His legacy is inspiring to me to leave one in my own way as best I can following in his example. My repayment to Jack will be to help everyone I can in my lifetime as he helped me, exactly as he would want it - I'm sure of that.
- Taylor R

He was dedicated to Caron and God and shared that with all the patients who came through the doors on Sunday morning. And he loved the piano!
- Kristen A.

He helped me understand Spirituality, which was a roadblock to my sobriety. It required multiple one on one sessions in his office. I am grateful for his insight and patience.
- Jackson G

I grew up in a Hindu home but never was “religious” in the strictest sense. But going to chapel on Magic Mountain and hear Rev Jack — his songs, his words — made me understand how to heal.
- M R

Attending a chapel service two years ago when my son was at Caron was one of the most profound spiritual experiences of my life. Under the guidance of Rev. Jack, the presence and love of God was palpable in that room. I will never forget it. May Rev. Jack rest in peace.
- Amy B

I attended Caron in 2010 and although I had a different spiritual advisor, I loved Sunday mornings with Reverend Jack and Father Bill. In the fall of 2023, I decided to attend the Fall Spiritual Retreat after 13 years of sobriety. Jack was surprised that someone of 13 years sobriety would return for the retreat and we spent a lot of time together after his kintsugi workshop talking about life and the many different roads we travel along. I will always remember him and am grateful for the time he spent with me. He had a way of making you feel like you were the most important person in the room, even though it was always he who really was.
- Toby D

So much laughter and love--that's the essence of Jack's and Bill's invitation to the Love of God i embraced on The Magic Mountain: it sustains me still.

That message is so important at time of loss and grieving.

When we said farewell to Father Bill, I felt a profound sadness--that lingers still.

And now, just learning of Jack's passing, i am deeply moved. That's Love for you.

So, a shout-out-thank-you, to Reverend Jack. Thanks for the love you brought.

Give Father Bill a BIG HUG for me when you see him; and tell him, one of his "kids" is still kickin it, here in the groovy land of life.

It sustains me still.

Namaste.
- Alvin H.

As a patient of Caron, I was fortunate to have several one-on-one sessions with Jack. His input, guidance, and recommendations contributed to my completion of the program and they have helped me maintain a healthy recovery program in the years since. Two years after discharge, I became a Caron employee and was blessed to encounter him yet again, working with him in a different capacity; but he continued to be my teacher. His lessons have helped me greatly as I continue to work treating and counseling people beginning their own roads to recovery.
- Stephen T.

Rev. Jack was amazing and it breaks my heart to learn that we lost him way too soon. He gave me the honor of performing at several of his sermons during my time at Caron. He was always encouraging and always checking in to make sure that we were receiving what we needed in the moment. I regret that I will not see him again and I rejoice in the thought that absent from this earth is present with the Lord. Through this heartbreak, I pray for nothing but the best for his family.
- Gye J.

A bright shining light for me to believe I’m enough; such a loss..-️
- Kathy W.

I lived next to Jack with just a wall separating our living rooms. He played the piano most evenings. My daughters and I would turn the TV off and just listen. I don't think he knew that. I also don't think he knew that it brought us such joy and beauty during some difficult times. That is how I'll always remember Reverend Jack.
- Tammy R.

Reverend Jack was instrumental in my recovery while I was at Caron back in 2018, his kind words, his understanding and optimism helped me tremendously. I am only one of the thousands he helped over the years. He will be missed but he is now free to be with Jesus in paradise.
- Steve C.

Dearest Jack, will surely miss you at the events. We were always seated together and had great conversations. And surely miss our days of facilitating Chronic pain group. You were so brilliant, talented and kind, helping so many. So glad our paths crossed.
- Sharon Matthew

When I came to Caron, I had very little hope in life or faith in God or a Higher Power. I did Caron’s train track Program for 4.5 months in 2016-2017. He helped restore my faith in God and my belief and hope in myself and humanity. I am now an Inpatient Therapist at a co-occurring drug and alcohol facility. Without Jack and Caron, I would not be who I am today and belong so many others who struggle with addiction, trauma and mental health issues. I am forever grateful for the gift of hope, grace and faith he provided to me while at Caron. His seeds of hope and faith grew little by little to help heal my soul. I can not thank him enough for such a wonderful gift to myself, my two daughters and my family. Much love to his family, and loved ones. Without him and Caron I would not be here today 8 years later. -️ This I know to be true.
- Catherine “Katie” T.

I attended Caron in the summer of 2021 and participated in the Sunday chapel service as a musician. I remember singing a song and he stopped me and gave me a couple of pointers for my vocals that made a HUGE difference in the long run. My music had been dead for years and I hadn’t touched much of anything, then on that last Sunday, I sang my song at church and got a huge standing ovation and I completely forgot I could have that effect of people. I looked at Rev. Jack and saw him smiling at me. I’ll never forget that. God bless you Jack, rest in peace my friend -️
- Dustin S.

I was at Caron almost 17 years ago, lost with respect to spirituality. I was feeling angry and resentful after recently losing my father to brain cancer. Reverend Jack sat with me and listened to my anger, as I told him I no longer believed in God. He handed me a passage on lamentation in scripture, which I read and he explained that feeling angry and frustrated with God is in fact, an acknowledgment of the existence of God. We talked for a long time and in that moment I recognized that I still believed that something greater than me was out there. We had many more conversations after that day. I held onto that conversation, and I have held onto the passage he printed out to this day. I never picked up another drink or drug. He was a light in this world and will be missed.
- Jamie S.

I remember moving from Detox to the Men's Relapse Unit on a Saturday. I went to the auditorium and asked Jack if I could play music at chapel the following day. I looked like I had just been scraped off the pavement--but he politely suggested that I get settled and sign up for the following week. I started playing and singing after he left; I didn't realize that he could hear me from his office. A few minutes later, he walked back in and said, "I've changed my mind, and, in fact, you *have* to play tomorrow." It had been so long since anybody had asked me to do anything (with the notable exceptions of "Stop Drinking" & "Go Away"). I didn't understand it at the time, but all I ever really wanted was to be useful. Jack understood the power of music, the power of prayer, the necessity of inclusion, and, most of all, the spirit of service. I was very early in my journey out of self-centeredness, but Jack worked with me each week to create something meaningful for the other patients. And that was certainly meaningful to me.
- Seamus M.

Rev Jack lit up the room the minute he walked in. He exuded warmth and acceptance and kindness. Though I didn’t get to see him often I will miss him.
- Susan Fromm

Rev Abel brought me comfort during my time at Caron in 2011. I enjoyed him and his soft tone very much. I will always remember him. My Caron family still lives in my heart as I continue on in recovery.
- Thomas W.

So sorry for the loss of Reverend Jack. He was an amazing man that was able to connect with me and so many on a spiritual level. I remember during my care, and as a Jew, I wanted so much to connect with him on his spiritual journey. I set up an appointment to spend time talking and we connected simply by being open and respectful. What a warm-hearted soul. May his memories be for a blessing. I am sure they will for so many.
- Doug K.

I loved Jack Abel. He was instrumental in helping me find my voice in singing, something I’d always wanted to do, but had given up in the throes of my disease.

Strangely enough, he called me into his office one day and in a very blunt manner, told me I was going to die if I didn’t get sober. I felt he was being extremely harsh but in retrospect, he, of course, was right. That was the thing about Jack…he could be very kind, loving and encouraging but he wasn’t afraid to tell you the brutal truth about your disease. Hence, his effectiveness with people in the grips of addiction.
- Beth R.

I met Rev. Jack in the summer of 2022, when I was in rehab at Caron. Although my time with him was brief, his compassion and courage made a great impact on my recovery at that time, and still does. Thank you, Rev. Jack.
- Matt D.

I have been a singer and song writer for many years. During the last stages when alcohol was reeking havoc on my life, music took a back seat and I rarely played. While I was at Caron in November of 2020, Reverend Jack's music program helped me get back in touch with that part of my soul and life. This was such a gift for me, considering music is such an important part of my soul and brings me such joy and peace. Reverend Jack was a beautiful soul and will always be remembered.
- Shaun L.

Reverend Jack, and his love for music, allowed me to join “chapel” even though I was born into a Hindu home. I thank him, and the whole Caron community, for always being there.
- M R

I so appreciated Reverend Jack's service when visiting our loved one at Caron, as well as his online services during Covid. His spiritual counsel was so very valuable. May he rest in peace!
- Dan B.

Rev Jack was one of the first to call and congratulate me when I was named Director of Spiritual Services at Caron Renaissance in Florida. He hosted me at Caron in Pennsylvania and helped me in many ways. He truly lived his spirituality. May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed Rest In Peace.
- John Baudhuin

Rest well Rev Jack
- Robert G.

This man changed my life and we got very close. I know the time he spent at Caron and the time he spent in Lewes beach Delaware was his serenity and I’m so blessed to have had him in my life. He pushed my music talents but the biggest thing is he cared about my sobriety and my walk with God. We talked about having my friend paint a picture of him across from Father Bill.
- Justin H.

Reverand Jack spoke of hope and grace often at Chit Chat Chapel with such conviction that I started to believe that recovery was possible. More importantly, my daughter, Stephanie heard that message and walked out of Caron a very different person. A women who held her head high for the first time in years. God bless you Reverand Jack. You will always be a true gift to recovery.
- Theresa R.

JACK WAS A BRILLANT COMPASSIONATE LOVING MINISTER WHO HAD INTEGRITY, HUMILITY, LOVE, AND COMPASSION IN HIS SOUL. HE TOUCHED MANY SOULS OF PEOPLE WHO HAD THE DISEASE OF ADDICTION AS THEY BEGAN THEIR RECOVERY PROCESS.
- BARBARA L.

A very special person. Loved working with Rev Jack on Caron dinners and events. He was amazing with our musically talented alumni and aways made them SHINE! I am so heartbroken…he was a great friend and I will cherish my memories of working with him forever. 🙏-️
- Pam Smith

In 2021, I completed a CPE unit in Spiritual Care at Caron. While leading Chapel was not part of my curriculum, Jack encouraged me to give it a try, noting that it would be a good addition to my resume. I was apprehensive, but Jack assured me that he’d be by my side every step of the way. It ended up being a wonderful opportunity to experience a new level of reliance on God as I walked through the preparation and leading the service.

Additionally, we shared many deep conversations about recovery and theology. I am so very grateful I had the chance to work with Jack and get to know him better.

The world has lost a beautiful soul…and I’m sure he and Father Bill are having a wonderful time catching up!
- Jessica Morris

Jack Able, a remarkable man who touched the lives of many, including my own. I first met Jack twelve years ago, in the rooms where he dedicated himself to helping others find their path to sobriety. He was an integral part of the spiritual team at Caron, and I had the privilege of working under him alongside Father Bill Hultberg.

When Father Bill retired, Jack stepped into his role with grace and wisdom, guiding us with his profound understanding of spirituality, forgiveness, and tolerance. Jack taught me invaluable lessons that shaped my journey in recovery and beyond.

I will always be grateful for Jack’s friendship, especially during the difficult time following Chris's passing. His compassionate words and unwavering support helped us all navigate through our grief. Jack had a unique ability to bring light into the darkest moments, and his impact on our lives is immeasurable.

Jack, my friend, you will be deeply missed. Your legacy of love, kindness, and strength will continue to inspire us all. Thank you for everything.
- Molly W.

Reverend Jack restored hope and gratitude within me. He showed me that a prosperous and fulfilling future was possible in recovery. He taught me that finding God, even in the small things, was essential in living a happy and whole life. He thought me that gratitude is everything. I will forever be grateful that I was able to spend time with him and learn from him on this Earth.
- Karen F.

My son spend 4 weeks at Caron and each sunday we were blessed to be him and listen to Jack give hope and inspiration to everyone that attended.

I enjoyed his outlook on spirituality and his enthusiasm. I was truly shocked and still can not be believe he is gone.

Rest in Peace and god be with you.
- Marty B.

Jack always made it easier to smile, at humor and woes. Sad sad loss.
- Leonard B.

Reverend Jack was the first person at Caron who broke through my facade of having it all together and open up about my true struggles that led to my alcoholism. He could see through me in minutes, and when I shared that I felt my sexuality would keep me from the love of God, he responded with tears in his eyes "God loves you no matter who you love, and I love you too." I will never forget that lesson and I strive to not only love others in the same way as Reverend Jack.
- Kodie S.

Jack sold me my first computer in 1986. He generously gave me 10 lessons to go along with the purchase. The best benefit of this was that we got to know each other and when I came into the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous in 2000 Jack was there at my first meeting saving me a seat.

I was about 10 into recovery when I had a crisis of faith. I made an appointment with Jack. He helped me find a language of spirituality that spoke to my heart. I struggled with modern day Christian Church doctrine. He suggested that I read some of the early Christian mystics. Those readings sent me on a spiritual journey that continues today.

Jack always had a brilliant smile that made me feel loved. Our shared experience in recovery was so joyful for me. I missed him when he left Rehoboth for Caron, but I am grateful that he got to be a part of the Caron recovery community.
- Marilyn S.

J ACK WAS A BRILLANT COMPASSIONATE HUMAN BEING,

A WARE AM I THAT INTEGRITY, HUMILITY, AND LOVE WERE DEEP IN HIS SOUL,

C ARON FOUNDATION WERE BLESSED TO HAVE HIM AS DIRECTOR OF THEIR SPIRITUAL DEPARTMENT,

K INDRED SPIRITS OF ADDICTS BEGAN A HEALING PROCESS UNDER HIS GUIDANCE

IT IS VERY HARD FOR ME THAT GOD HAS TAKEN HIM HOME AT AGE 68. I HAVE LOST A SPECIAL FRIEND. WE NEED TO PRAY FOR HIS FAMILY.
- BARBARA L.

Rev. Jack was an instrumental part of The New Seminary, a great teacher and spiritual guide. His presence will be greatly missed. Rest in Power, dear Jack and sing with the angels.
- Rev. Dr. Deborah Darlington

Such a lovely, classy man. He will be missed.
- Marci Z.

I am saddened to hear of the untimely passing of Reverend Jack Abel. He was a big help to me and others in my group during my stay at Caron in 2022. May he rest in peace and his memories and mission continue to live on.
- Craig G

I arrived at Caron at 15 years old with no desire to get clean/sober and an avalanche of baggage I couldn’t fathom sharing with a single soul. Reverend Jack was the first person to sit with me and share some of his deeply personal life experiences. He did so in the most kind and candid way. He was the first person I trusted enough to begin sharing with. He became my spiritual advisor after that and I flourished. He was one of the biggest positive influences I had at Caron at 15, and again at 17 and throughout my life up until now. I will miss him dearly and will never forget him or the impact he had on my life. Rest in the sweetest peace Reverend Jack, Thank you for helping to save my life by sharing yours, and for always being a kind, gentle and caring man.
- Brianna T.

Reverend Jack was the embodiment of radical acceptance. My eternal gratitude for his generous sharing of his gifts and talents with everyone he met. May he Rest In Peace.
- Marianne O.

When I was a client at Caron, Jack was my spiritual advisor.

For anyone getting sober, all practical and spiritual concepts seem insurmountable.

I told him a story of an emblem (a lucky charm) that I had had for years but I had lost. And for some reason, I felt like I was lost without it.

Jack got up, and pried that same symbol off of one of his fancy degrees hanging on the wall. And gave it to me.

We had discussions about the spiritual malady and the spiritual solution. But it was that one act of kindness that has stuck with me. And I've been carrying that emblem with me, along with my coin, for 16 years of continuous sobriety.

He was the complete embodiment of "Give freely of what you find".

What a gift. Thank you Jack.
- Jen W.

I was at Caron May-June 2023. I was told that the music during Chapel was really good and was thinking about attending, but I am an atheist and didn't want to offend anyone with my attendance just for the music. I went a little early and asked Father Jack if he minded that I attended. He said, "No! I was an atheist too! Everyone is welcome here!" The message was beautiful that day and I went to chapel every Sunday I was there, and have driven six hours to return. May his family find comfort and grace knowing that he was so beloved by so many.
- Julianna T.

I’m forever grateful for Rev. Jack’s moving and insightful talks each Sunday, at Caron Chapel Services.

Will cherish my Recovery Coins I received am from him.

My prayers to Rev. Jack, his family and everyone at Caron. 🙏
- Michele F.

I loved him from a far distance away.

Utah. As my daughter struggled with addiction.

I listened to him every Monday morning on the uTube channel

I sure hope he is happy with the Lord now. Caron chapel services are not the same without him.
- Melony A.

I attended chapel every Sunday while my loved one was at Caron. It became something I cherished and looked forward to each week. Reverend Jack touched my heart as he led each Sunday with such compassion, empathy and humor. He truly understood what individuals were going through. I loved the music element and having the residents perform each week. He will be deeply missed by all.
- Susan M

Jack was a champion of the power of music to help heal people in recovery. He also, with no preparation, gave one of the most moving prayers I have ever heard just before a music group I was leading. I will never forget the feeling in the room when he became a channel for spirit to come in. He will be sorely missed.
- Kathy M.

Reverend Jack had such a profound influence with me during a very difficult time. His services and sermons were very uplifting and he brought together so many of us through the music and faith he projected.
- J E.

Jack was the most gracious of souls —and will always live on in the hearts of the thousands of men and women he inspired and supported specific to recovery and life on life’s terms.

Jack was humble, kind, generous and deeply honest! Jack lived as he preached and will forever be an example of integrity and heart

On a personal note, Jack had played a huge part in my recovery and will continue to live on as I journey forward with the many lessons he shared with me and my fellow
- Andy B

Breaks my heart to lose this incredible human being. His impact on our family will forever be remembered with love. Rest in Peace dear friend.
- Joanne M.

Thank you, Jack, for your kind soul and welcoming heart. You left your mark on this world and have touched many, many lives.
- Allison P.

Rev. Jack and I built a beautiful relationship rooted in his ability to lead with curiosity and compassion - to greet challenge with willingness to be open and ever a student - I will miss my knowing him.
- Rev. Erica P.

When I went to Caron about six months ago, I was very off put by the fact there was mandatory chapel. Staff members told me just to go and I’m glad I did. Sunday I sat through chapel and really enjoyed it. Rev. Jack was very inclusive and just an all around caring and wonderful guy. When I went up to him after chapel to introduce myself and thank him for his service, he gave me a warm hug and then we talked briefly. Even in our brief interaction, Rev. Jack remembered my name and we spoke several times afterwards while I was in YAMP.

Reverend Jack was an all around inspiration while in early recovery. He has touched the hearts of everyone he met. May he rest in peace.
- Sal D.

When I arrived at my third rehab in 12 months, I was completely beaten down by my alcoholism. I wanted so badly to be sober but just didn’t think I had what it took to fight my disease and stay sober.

There were many influential people at Caron who had a major impact on my journey to sobriety. The charismatic, compassionate, witty and sage spiritual guru Reverend Jack was one of them. I got news yesterday than he passed away unexpectedly and I’m heartbroken.

Reverend Jack had a bright personality that was quirky and unique and made you want to stop and listen to everything he had to say. He had a way of making you feel important, like he was talking right to your soul whether you were one on one or one of a few hundred in his lecture or Chapel service.

I remember being in Chapel on my first day out of detox. The legendary Father Bill was up front with Reverend Jack and they were sharing sermons and stories of hope and recovery. I cried and laughed through the entire two hours and finally felt like I found my people. I knew this is where I needed to be to work on myself, love myself and believe in myself.

I saw Reverend Jack every time I returned to campus for an event, including my yearly coin ceremony to celebrate another year sober. I always looked forward to his big smile, a tight embrace and his yelling, “ahhhhh another year sober!”

To me, he was a symbol of hope, a messenger of faith and an inspiration that reminded me that I was capable and deserving of a sober life. I can say without a doubt, I wouldn’t be sober without him.

The recovery world lost a good one on Thursday. I’m just so grateful our paths crossed. I was blessed to know him, learn from him and look up to him.

Thank you Reverend Jack, you helped me more than you’ll ever know. I’ll keep doing the next right thing and keep a little piece of you with me always.
- Amy M.

Jack was such a compassionate and inspirational man bringing a pastoral dimension to the care of our patients. Really really enjoyed working with him at Caron and will be truly missed. I was very blessed to have known him….
- Diane Mankus

He told what I needed to hear at just the right time. Gave me reassurance that I was welcome to join in the service at the chapel.

His help to me, I believe, earned him a seat next to God.

Imagine the welcoming he received at his arrival.

With all the people he gave reassurances too,

He earned that seat.
- Randy L.

first day of working at breakthrough at Caron - April 1, 2009, I met and just fell in love with jack. smart, philosophical, funny, musical- ever expanding complexity of what it is to be a sober being who lives and moves and has his being in that transformative and mystical power called god. although the times we spoke were fewer over the years - I feel an everlasting impact of Jack's being on mine. in fact, without knowing he had his final exhale- just this day, today, at Onsite in Nashville I taught about the presence of absence.....which I learned from jack...through a book he brought to my awareness by Jean-Luc Marion "god without being"... today, my heart knows more fully this presence.. because there most certainly is today an astounding presence of absence. fare thee well, my friend.
- Kathleen M.

One of the most memorable times for my husband during his 28 days at Caron was Father Jack's presentation about the role of spiritual connection in recovery. Thank you, Father Jack.
- Cathy K.

So very sad and sorry!

Rev Jack was a light to us as we struggled with family addictions. 2011.

Fly high to well earned rest Rev. Jack!!
- Julie L.

He prayed with me and listened to my story. He was the first person that didn’t judge me and looked at me as a human being, not a disappointment. You could feel his compassion for others radiating in everything he did.
- Kylie M

On the morning of my last chapel at Caron Reverend Jack told me that I was a talented writer and poet, and I could help many people by sharing my story one day. He also told me not to “screw it up” referring to sobriety. His words still echo in my ears today. I will forever be grateful for the confidence he helped instill within me. He was a beautiful soul and I will forever be grateful for the role he played in saving my life.
- Christina M.

Very sad to hear this news…

I am so grateful to Jack. My rehab stay involved several talks with him as well as his group talks, Sunday observances and working together in the Christmas play! Jack was warm, kind, funny and wise—an amazing human. This is a sad and significant loss. Prayers and love to his family and to the Caron family…so glad to have known you Jack, your love for life and for addicts was felt in every encounter. Respect.
- David C.

It is with much respect that I share that I had the privilege and honor to work as a counselor at Caron for a period while Rev. Jack touched many lives with his spiritual giving heart. The memories of the many times I witnessed his passionate messages communicated to those in early recovery will forever have a meaningful place in my heart. I am grateful to have witnessed his spiritual contributions to so many. May he rest in peace.
- Beth Fratantoni

I was at Caron for 1 month in 2024! so many memories. one of the best was of Rev Jack at the Sunday service. such a bright light ! so much knowledge and insight! so much talent in so many ways!! he moved myself and my daughters and husband! i will never ever forget the impact he had on me! God gets another Angel!!!
- Joanne K.

He walked me through the steps on Caron campus. At each step his words of wisdom, and insight will never be forgotten. Rest in Peach dear man.
- Maxine L

As a relapse patient, pastor Jack would hug me and tell me to never give up. You’re here for God’s purpose. I loved that man. He was right. I never gave up.

His services were all encompassing. Pastor Jack showed the love of God.
- Cynthia A.

Deidre and I will never forget his wonderful smile and unwavering need to care for others. Such a loss to our community. May God bless Jack.
- Lyle F.

Jack was faced with an extremely difficult assignment, when father Bill retired. Too often we heard he’s not doing what father bull would do. I say he was, just in Jack’s way, always carrying the message of HOPE AND HEALING.

Jack took on that mission of replacing Fr Bill, with GRACE AND HUMILITY AND CARRIED ON THE TRADITIONAL OF DICK and Catherine, as well as Fr Bill. Always providing the promise of Recovery. RIP REV.
- Mike Early

I first met Jack thirteen years ago, and at the time, he felt like a sidekick to Father Bill. However, he soon took on Father Bill's legacy with incredible passion, driving forward the vital spiritual mission at Caron with his remarkable vision. Every moment with Jack was memorable; he had a unique ability to make you feel like the most important person in the room. This highlighted Jack's humility, as his intellect was evident when you spent time with him. His kindness and love were abundant, and he offered unwavering support for our shared efforts to assist those on their recovery journeys. Jack will be deeply missed, but I think his spirit will continue to thrive in the lives he touched and the meaningful work he dedicated himself to.
- Eric Rodriguez

One of my most cherished memories of Reverend Jack is how is voice would grow louder with excitement as he stood at the chapel podium, passionately speaking about the miracle of recovery and how it overcomes addiction. He would get so revved up that his voice would actually shriek! That energy was so inspiring and uplifting for patients and families, giving them hope. His deep love for words and their meaning also inspired me, showing how powerful language can be in the journey of recovery. Thank you for everything you taught us, Rev Jack.
- Danielle Fillmore

Hi, so sad to hear about Jack’s sudden passing. I was at Caron in 2020. I talked to Jack several times. He was such a kind spiritual man. I felt so comfortable talking with him. He eased my anxiety and fears that comes along with being in treatment. I’ve been watching on YouTube, wasn’t the same as being in person with him. Jack and his Family and the Caron family are in my thoughts and prayers.
- Mary S.

Rev Jack’s celebrations were wonderful on Sunday mornings. He made me feel so comfortable during a time in my life when comfort was hard to find. May he rest in peace.
- K C

He saved my life. So glad I got to tell him this at last year's spiritual retreat.
- Charles Tobler

I am saddened to hear of the untimely passing of Reverend Jack Abel. He was a big help to me and others in my group during my stay at Caron in 2022. May he rest in peace and his memories and mission continue to live on.
- Craig G.

I arrived at Caron at 15 years old with no desire to get clean/sober and an avalanche of baggage I couldn’t fathom sharing with a single soul. Reverend Jack was the first person to sit with me and share some of his deeply personal life experiences. He did so in the most kind and candid way. He was the first person I trusted enough to begin sharing with. He became my spiritual advisor after that and I flourished. He was one of the biggest positive influences I had at Caron at 15, and again at 17 and throughout my life up until now. I will miss him dearly and will never forget him or the impact he had on my life. Rest in the sweetest peace Reverend Jack, Thank you for helping to save my life by sharing yours, and for always being a kind, gentle and caring man.
- Brianna CT

Reverend Jack was the embodiment of radical acceptance. My eternal gratitude for his generous sharing of his gifts and talents with everyone he met. May he Rest In Peace.
- Marianne O.

When I was a client at Caron, Jack was my spiritual advisor.
For anyone getting sober, all practical and spiritual concepts seem insurmountable. I told him a story of an emblem (a lucky charm) that I had had for years but I had lost. And for some reason, I felt like I was lost without it. Jack got up, and pried that same symbol off of one of his fancy degrees hanging on the wall. And gave it to me.

We had discussions about the spiritual malady and the spiritual solution. But it was that one act of kindness that has stuck with me. And I've been carrying that emblem with me, along with my coin, for 16 years of continuous sobriety.

He was the complete embodiment of "Give freely of what you find".

What a gift. Thank you Jack.
- Jen W.

I was at Caron May-June 2023. I was told that the music during Chapel was really good and was thinking about attending, but I am an atheist and didn't want to offend anyone with my attendance just for the music. I went a little early and asked Father Jack if he minded that I attended. He said, "No! I was an atheist too! Everyone is welcome here!" The message was beautiful that day and I went to chapel every Sunday I was there, and have driven six hours to return. May his family find comfort and grace knowing that he was so beloved by so many.
- Julianna T.

I’m forever grateful for Rev. Jack’s moving and insightful talks each Sunday, at Caron Chapel Services.

Will cherish my Recovery Coins I received am from him.

My prayers to Rev. Jack, his family and everyone at Caron. 🙏
- Michele F.

I loved him from a far distance away. Utah. As my daughter struggled with addiction. I listened to him every Monday morning on the YouTube channel

I sure hope he is happy with the Lord now. Caron chapel services are not the same without him.
- Melony A.

I attended chapel every Sunday while my loved one was at Caron. It became something I cherished and looked forward to each week. Reverend Jack touched my heart as he led each Sunday with such compassion, empathy and humor. He truly understood what individuals were going through. I loved the music element and having the residents perform each week. He will be deeply missed by all.
- Susan M.

Jack was a champion of the power of music to help heal people in recovery. He also, with no preparation, gave one of the most moving prayers I have ever heard just before a music group I was leading. I will never forget the feeling in the room when he became a channel for spirit to come in. He will be sorely missed.
- Kathy M.

Reverend Jack had such a profound influence with me during a very difficult time. His services and sermons were very uplifting and he brought together so many of us through the music and faith he projected.
- J E

Jack was the most gracious of souls —and will always live on in the hearts of the thousands of men and women he inspired and supported specific to recovery and life on life’s terms.

Jack was humble, kind, generous and deeply honest! Jack lived as he preached and will forever be an example of integrity and heart

On a personal note, Jack had played a huge part in my recovery and will continue to live on as I journey forward with the many lessons he shared with me and my fellow
- Andy B.

Breaks my heart to lose this incredible human being. His impact on our family will forever be remembered with love. Rest in Peace dear friend.
- Joanne M.

Thank you, Jack, for your kind soul and welcoming heart. You left your mark on this world and have touched many, many lives.
- Allison P.

Rev. Jack and I built a beautiful relationship rooted in his ability to lead with curiosity and compassion - to greet challenge with willingness to be open and ever a student - I will miss my knowing him.
- Rev. Erica P.